Tigress. You and your
ebooks have helped me more than you can ever know. I would be lost
without this site.
This place is the place to
be for support and love
This place has help me more
than you will ever know!!!!
So many times what I was
able to say here I would have kept inside!!!!
The advice is
excellent..........and i think that it is so neat that if you are
having a bad night and can't sleep you can just about be assured that
there will be someone...somewhere that can be there for you.
I find it so amazing that
even through the keys of the board you can feel the pain and the love
I seriously do not know
where i would be had I not been lead to this community!!!
I feel like we are family!!!
So thank you Tig for
birthing this place ...you have allowed change to come in so many lives.
just wanted to say thank you for this website and the wonderful books
that are within it. The information and knowledge that is in these
books should be learned by everyone. Thanks for all the love and
support that the site offer
You will have available in
this community the support and strength that you need to remove
yourself from this unhealthy "dance". There is a huge amount of wisdom
here. Make yourself available to it, come here when you are sad, lonely
or angry and I promise you will find what you need. We welcome you here.
You will get lots of
varying responses which really helps because you can look at things
from many perspectives.
pain is uniquely yours and everyone else's pain is their own. You're
entitled to your feelings whatever they may be. Share away...that's
what our community is for.
We are here for each other
and it's a safe place to vent all the things that we feel and have done
(even the things that we are not so proud of – I know I have).
on these boards have been a massive help to me and many others.
website has literally changed me- thank you so much and please thank
anyone else you're in contact with for such an incredibly loving place
to go during a rough time!
ask for love and look what you got a whole community that just "loves
you to pieces".
This is a fantastic site, I
am doing very well, have bounced back and dating a special person.
Many thanks for your
material. We did not get back together but within an hour of starting
to read your stuff I stopped feeling so damned wretched about things.
And now I am seeing someone new, something I doubt would have happened
without your web site.
I will have absolutely no
hesitation in recommending your site to anyone who is suffering through
a breakup and I wish you continued success.
am confident that the healthiness of this community depends on people's
confidence in expressing their feelings about life, about the own
situations and about each others. No one is here to be some gate-keeper
to keep positive emotions in and negative emotions out, and if it were
so it would be something weirder than a cult.
I'm glad there's the
courage shared here between many of us to say how the view looks from
where each of us is stood: long may it continue.
Thank you for your words of
encouragement and comfort...they mean so much.
Strange this is ...but as I
finished reading the post from Coach I began to cry...haven't all
day......as the tears flowed it was as if I could feel you circle
around me... strange.. but it was such a feeling of safety and comfort.
Thank you again my dear friends for your time and strength...I will get
through this..I will and I will be better for it.
Wishing you each the best
I considered it a blessing
to be in a community of such amazing people.
This place is filled with
such wisdom, care and love. We may not always agree but we don't have
to...we are all so different and each bring something different to the
table....what a blessing!!!!! Many of you do not know how uplifting it
is to watch you grow and work thru your pain and what beauty has come
from it. I pray that each of you find the love of your life and the joy
of life in the world we are so privileged to live in. Again thank you
all for your support.
absolutely is a safe place for those of you who really need it. I know
that I certainly did at one point and everyone here was fantastic. It's
a beautiful community with loads to offer anyone at ANY stage of
Hello tigress, i am honored
to receive a reply from the GURU of RELATIONSHIPS, You and your site
has been a God Send to me!
When I get on this site and
feel the love and warmth and concern that you and all the others
impart, I become overwhelmed and spend half of my time in tears because
of the goodness I feel coming from all of you. I almost cannot believe
it, it moves me..It has restored a lot of my faith in humanity, I now
know that there are people who love and feel compassion and concern for
another...I have not felt that in a long time, all of you ARE doing the
work of GOD.
Thank you for loving me!
found a very compassionate and amazing community here and we learn from
each other and offer each other tremendous support. We do have our
dysfunctional moments, but they are few and far between...but by and
large we are really a family and some of us have even met (and stay in
touch off the boards) in real life. There's always something going on
here, so keep your eyes peeled on ALL the forums and maybe something
will be happening in your area!
This is a great place to
start your journey and we'll stay in step with you as you go through it.
are so right about this compassionate and amazing community...All of
you have helped me tremendously...The knowledge and wisdom shared in
this community has become a foundation that I will plant my feet in and
and WELCOME!! You've found a great place to pour out your heart, and to
learn. I know you're hurting right now, but I promise...if you stick
with us...it will get better.
and Welcome to Lifted Hearts....you are not here by accident! This is a
loving and giving safe place for you to explore who you are!
Again,...sorry for the
reason that brought you here, but so glad you are here. A heart break
brought me here and this place gave me the tools I needed to make
changes in my life. I will never regret that love and break-up because
of what it taught me about me and pointed me to Lifted Hearts.
are in the right place, and you can post and spill your guts every day
and the GREAT people on this board will support you every step of the
echo what people have said. This site is a great place to vent, and get
the advice and support that you need while you are determining what
direction you are going in.
Your website gave me such
comfort. I hope I will never have to come back again, but I will surely
be there if needed. I will be sure to send my heartbroken friends to
Your website was wonderful
for me when I was going through my heartache. I am feeling better now..
God Bless. It is a
wonderful thing you are doing.
"I am more and more
astonished by this book by Tigress. It has helped me more than a dozen
counselling sessions, and I cant believe how much more positive and
accepting of my situation it has made me, just by reading it. I haven't
even got round to reading any of her other books yet, this one has been
all the help I need, for the time being.
Tigress never thought of publishing it in hard copy? I am also an
author in the (deleted to protect privacy) world, of a best selling
book, which the publishers have made a mint out of, and me, bugger all!
So I am currently writing my second book and will self publish this
time, probably in (deleted to protect privacy), as amazon and other
distributors will take it, no question.
book 'How to Stop Your Breakup', would I am certain, be a huge
bestseller if sold through booksellers. It is a book that would help
many thousands, survive breakup, even if they didn't get their partner
back, it sure as hell prepares you to move on. It was the title that
attracted me, in my desperation to try to get my partner back. There
must be thousands in the same situation, and maybe that relationship
was never, is never, going to be right for them.
just giving the reader the hope that they might be able to retrieve the
relationship, gets him or her feeling more positive from the first
chapter! But then, reading on, it also alerts the reader to some facts
that put the relationship into perspective, maybe not always the
perspective that we want to hear, but it forces the reader, in a
gentle, but no nonsense way, to face up to facts that I for one, had
been trying to bury. This has prepared me to accept that I may never
get the relationship back, but would I really have wanted it, in the
way it was? Unless it changed drastically, no, I wouldn't, and if it
doesn't happen, despite the fact I still love my ex, it has prepared me
to move on and realise that I was on my own before, and I can do it
urge Tigress to publish this book for the masses- it is SO invaluable.
I have read a stack of 'self help' books in the last few weeks, and
nothing has helped me like 'How to Stop Your Break-up'.
Two Keys to
Surviving a Breakup: Resources and Support
are easy to enter, hard to maintain, and painful to leave. The first
blush of interest and attraction fuels the passion that ultimately
leads to commitment. In the midst of a relationship, all sorts of
things can go wrong, from the failure to communicate or taking the
other person for granted, to infidelity or abuse. The breakup is heart
wrenching for both people, regardless of who initiated the break up and
even when there is good reason to split. That's why, whether you're on
the verge of breaking up, in the throes of separation, or recovering
from heartbreak, it's important to spend the time necessary to heal.
The best thing you can do to help this process along involves finding
the right support and resources.
Books are Wonderful Resources
Whether your goal is to mend a broken heart, win an ex back and get
back together, or to simply move on with your life, you can be sure
that others have traveled the same path. Because a breakup can make you
feel lost, it's extremely helpful to rely on the advice and experiences
of others to put you on the path to healing.
For example, if your boyfriend (or girlfriend) left you - and played
the blame game in the process - it's natural to feel unlovable and at
fault. Yet, if you look at the situation from the perspective that he
or she left because of his or her own dysfunctional psychological
issues, you can more clearly see that it's really not about you, and
you can more freely move on with your life.
On the other hand, perhaps you contributed to the break up of the
relationship. Perhaps you didn't express your appreciation and
gratitude often enough, or maybe you didn't give your relationship the
priority it deserved. It could be that, instead of tending to your
relationship garden, both of you were busy doing other things while the
weeds took over. If your heart tells you that your relationship is
worth fighting for (not fighting over!), a book can help you navigate
the waters of getting back together.
Support is Essential
Few breakups happen overnight, so getting the support you need
throughout the process is essential. When it comes to breaking up, help
yourself by expressing your feelings and reaching out to others.
Writing about your feelings, asking others to listen to you vent,
seeking out advice, and reading about the experiences of others are all
tools that can help you mourn your loss, regain your sense of self, and
move on with your life.
Online Support and Resources
A breakup is one of life's most momentous events, but the people who
are closest to you are often not very objective. After all, they may
have their own agendas in pushing you toward one course of action or
away from another, or perhaps they care too much to cause you any
When you go online, though, you can find sites that provide both a
wealth of downloadable books and support-oriented discussion boards.
Instant access to books can be a lifesaver, and discussing your
situation and reading about those of others can give you the
one-day-at-a-time approach that will see you though every stage of the
breakup process. The best sites even have breakup blogs, where you can
journal your thoughts and feelings, and can read others' stories.
A breakup is extremely difficult, but you don't have to go it alone.
Whether your goal is to mend a broken heart or get back together, find
the online support and resources you need.
To read our reports about breakups and relationships and to
gain support throughout your breakup journey please join our
support site NOW...
It is so wonderful
over there (Lifted Hearts Community). So many people so much support
and it is really helping me feel better. It is so much better than
being lonely and sad which is what I have been this week. I am in the
beginning stages and I feel so alone and hopeless and it helps to hear
that I am not alone. The others on the board have been helping me so
much. There are so many people there posting that I find myself
checking it a few times a day. Someone ALWAYS responds to my post and
it is so comforting to know that there is support out there. Remember
what that was like????" ~Jen
"I'm new to this site and
stumbled across it when my girlfriend and I broke up five weeks ago.
Just reading some of your posts has been really helpful in coping with
my loss and it's comforting to know that so many of you out there are
going through the same pain that I'm experiencing." ~DaveC
to all that are new to this forum. You may not realize it yet, but by
finding this site, you are already on your way to recovery." ~a member
all understand the pain and suffering that you are going through. We
have all been there or we wouldn't be here. Everyone that is here is at
a different stage of healing. Some are just beginning the long journey,
and some have completely recovered and are here to offer support and
guidance, and all that are somewhere in between." ~a member
you will find from this site: everyone here has been or is in your
shoes, everyone is trying to help, offer encouragement, offer
suggestions, tell of their experiences to help guide others from making
the same mistakes, provide a shoulder to cry on." ~a member
am happy that I found this site yesterday. I know that I will visit it
often as I need a place like this to go. I have learned so much from it
already. Thanks for being here." ~a member
site can be a lifeline in a time of need. You will find people here
that are in different stages of healing. we are all here for you, you
need this board!" ~a member
found this site 3 months ago, it has been a god send." ~a member
was surfing the net in search of the answers that I was not able to get
from him. That was the day that I joined this community. A true God
send! I read and re-read the webBooks, I posted asking for advice, I
received advice which I now understand why was the best possible advice
that I could have received." ~Rising Up "There is such
value in reading the stories that others post here." ~a member
site is a wonderful place and I appreciate you being there. I often may
only have a couple of minutes to visit but I look to this group as a
safe place to retreat and to say "I am scared", "I am sad", "I am
confused", "I am feeling bad today", "I need a hug", or to tell you
when something goes well, too. I think of it when I am feeling bad and
cannot wait to stop in. I am glad that I found you here. I have no one
else to turn to. This is exactly the place that I needed to find. Thank
you!" ~a member
I will be alone. I hope that I can stay busy and not get depressed over
her. I feel ok though because I can come here and post and/or read some
from the library of webBooks. It really is good to know that you all
are here - that I have a place to go. Before finding this site, I had
no place to go and no one to talk to. I appreciate finding this site. I
appreciate your posts and support. Thanks for caring." ~a member
am so happy to have found this place to come and share, talk, read, and
basically not feel so alone. You guys have been wonderful to talk to
and I appreciate all of you being there. Your words and friendship mean
so much to me. I have been very busy this week at work and have not
been able to get here until now, but I have thought of this site, and
this board and how good it feels to be here and to talk to you. Before
finding this site, the loneliness and fear, and the feeling, at times,
that I had no place to turn was dreadful." ~Trezures
place has been wonderful, there were times where I really felt like you
guys really knew me, and it was such a wonderful experience to know
that I wasn't alone. I had some rough times, but the advice, and kind
words I received greatly helped." ~Isabella
site has been a godsend to me and has helped me through a very
difficult period. I have learned so much from all of you. I have
especially learned how many good, kind, caring people are out there -
people who will offer so much support and friendship to complete
strangers." ~Free At Last
found this site yesterday and have already gained so much from reading
some of the information and posts. I was sure that somewhere on the
internet there had to be a place to come when you needed to talk (not
pickup people) and receive constructive comments from people who may
have been through similar situations. This seems to be the place. "
new to this site, having stumbled upon it yesterday after stumbling
upon Tigress Luv's web book while looking for internet material on
relationship breakups. Like several other people have mentioned, I'm
very impressed and appreciative of everyone on here, and the chance to
express heartfelt feelings without being ridiculed or judged.
Ordinarily, I keep most things to myself, but it really does help to
get feedback from others who are going -- or who have gone -- through
the same thing. In fact, I was taken back as I read the posts here how
many other people are suffering through emotional upheavals because of
broken relationships." ~ Dave
Tigress Thank you for setting this wonderful community I must say I am
amazed and have learnt so much in regards to letting go of the past and
living now. The people here are fantastic and reading others stories
and the similarities are freaky but the outcomes seem the same, the
advise members give are great and to have an input is great too, I have
had a difficult time myself and have managed to get through. I so
wished I knew about this site before as the pain of getting through
would have been shared and so less hurtful.
you again, your books have been inspirational and helped me enormously,
made me think of the situation I have let myself get into and how to
get out and let go.
I am on the site
and helping others where I can. regards Znino
I'm a boy from Spain, my english is bad but I'll try to write it fine.
I'm 29 years old. I bought your ebook about get my girlfriend back. I
think I loss her forever because I cut every possible contact with her
(my friends, internet connections, my hobbies...) about 7 weeks. She
tried contact me the two firsts weeks, but I avoid her attempts of
contact. Then she desisted and then I buy your ebook.
Thanks you. I learned the real cause why she dumped me! I really love
that girl but I think that I should move forward because I think that
she has move forward too.
but hey, I'm happy because I learned a lot from your ebook. I've read
LOTS of them, but "how be the bastard that women love" was an eye
opener! I was little resistant, I tried to be perfect. My nice guy was
the number 4, the 'brother'. I have too a poor manliness. Now that I've
read this, I'm gonna try an accidental contact with her going out by
the places that we had in common. But I'm happy anyway.
Please, keep me informed about new ebooks that you could sell.
Thanks you again :)
can only say that your e books were the best help that I could have had
during the most traumatic time I’ve ever had in my life. My
boyfriend of 2 ½ years decided to call off our relationship.
I followed the tips in your books and after 8 weeks it was back on that
was 2 months ago and we really are stronger than ever before.
Everything that you said would happen did, his behaviour was like
reading from your book. In terms of insight into my own personality and
the way that I behave it was invaluable and I really won’t
make those mistakes again, ever. So thank you , I would certainly
recommend this to anyone going through difficult times, it was
fantastic, it gave me a plan, which in turn gave me hope and got my
life back on track at the same time. This got me through the first few
weeks and is still helping me now. I read it over and over again,
especially when I was low. He now does all of the things that he never
used to do and I’m so less needy, I feel like all of the
negative stuff that made me what I’d become have fallen away
and I’m back to my real self again.
know you may not be reading this, but this helped me so much and it
worked and most of all helped me to realize that I had to let go and
when I read this ebook I became peaceful and back to my self...Thank
you and pray for good health
are a talented writer! I have bought so many books with the hope of
having some new understanding about myself and they all say the same
stuff that you can't even remember once you put the book down. Not
yours! Wow. What an effect your breakup book had on me. Kind of
miraculous. You get to the meat of the matter, it was better than a one
on one professional therapist session. Thank you for lifting my heart!
Rita M, Houston Texas
had signed up for the book earlier but didn't read past the first
couple pages. Now, having read most of the book,...
This is the most incredible, insightful book I've ever read. Really.
Better than Mars/Venus. There is wisdom on every page. The description
of Love and the description of Forgiveness are so well done. I'll be
sending customers to buy your book. Signed, heartbroken"
want to thank you for your on-line materials. After 50 days my
ex-girlfriend of two years came back in tears. I used the techniques
and maintained a strong faith in God that we could be together. I was
prepared to lose her forever if that's what it took. It's true that you
cannot make someone love you and despite the horrible pain of losing
her, I learned a great deal about myself and relationships in general
by reading your book. I am a better boyfriend and she is a better
girlfriend. I guess that despite the break-up pain, IT HAD TO HAPPEN to
make things better for the future. I am so very happy with the outcome
and I want to congratulate you on the excellence of your book and the
truths it reveals. Thanks again, Mike"
have read a couple of your ebooks a few years ago and found myself in
need of your guidance once again--your knowledge worked for me about 6
years ago and I know if I put my mind to it and put myself first once
again I can accomplish anything. You are truly inspirational and so I
thank you once again as I turned to your ebooks for the push and
dedication I need in order to see things from the perspective I keep
blinding myself too :)
you so much for that. I am actually reading the "Counterfeit Heart"
book now. You have NO idea how precisely my now ex of 12 years fits
this mould. For the first time I feel like I'm not losing the plot.. I
am gob smacked how accurate it is ++
Anyway, thanks again for this.. Life or should I say - sanity - saving.
you and what an amazing book read it all today!! had me crying my eyes
out in the first chapter, tears of grief but also great joy because I
have finally worked out what has been holding me back and making me
hold on to a failed realtionship. I have a fair bit of work to do on
myself but this is the start i've been searching for and not been able
to find. Freedom at last! Yay!!
has been extremely helpful to me. Keep up the good work. Thanks
sweetie and I thank you! ~JC"
I'd like to thank you and Ms Tigress for all the help given through
your excellent forum. It's indeed been lifechanging! I wish you both
all the very very best. Thankyou again for everything,
cannot believe what I'm reading. You are right on with EVERYTHING. I
feel good knowing someone else hurt(s) the way I do and that I'm not
crazy, and that life will go on and get better.
I happen to be a gay man, and those breakups tend to be especially
There MsTigress, I am a man of 61 years old and have gone most of my
life with being a Mr. Nice Guy towards women. I have your books on
Being the Bastard and also Breaking Free from there spell. Never have I
read such truthful straight forward truths about men and women. I
really appreciate what you revealed about women and what there REAL
motives and wants are. Even at my age I'm looking forward to get more
in touch with my male DNA. I just want to say thank You and I really,
really, appreciate your truthful writings.
thankyou I received the ebook, already reading away on the narcissist
one. Wow!!!!!!!!!!!!! I'm not alone. What a relief to find out I
normal, and he's the idiot......
you for telling the truth about being a man in an environment today's
that is saturated with toxic gender blending social "norms". Your
e-book serves a wakeup call to every man who has every subscribed to
crazy bullshit ass ideologies of The Feminist Moment, Dr. Phil, Self -
Help books and others who use covert and overt tactics to feminize
every red blooded masculine man western society into becoming a
sexually "non-threatening" nice guy. You are the real deal Tigress!
thank Tigress Luv for writing a book that was truly one of the most
honest and helpful books in helping me to let go of the pain associated
with a breakup from someone I truly loved (or thought I loved). No
psychobabble. No miracles. No therapy. Reality check. I hope Tigess is
still writing currently.
read the book and it helped in so many different ways.. thank you. we
are back together and working on things. Thank you for your help.
just got done reading your book about why women love bastards. I know
that you are 100% accurate on this, I just lost a girl because she lost
her attraction to me and I'm certain that it was because of many of the
things that I did that you mention in the book. I didn't even realize
that i was doing them at the time and wish now I could change that
because she is a great catch. Chad"
have to say that the name 'Tigress Luv', initially, to a 'stiff upper
lip' Brit, sounded a bit offputting, but when I started to read the
stuff about relationship break ups, having just suffered a second break
up with a man I still love dearly, the 'How to Stop Your Breakup', hit
the right note. I joined and have been reading the ebook, and I am
gobsmacked, for want of a better word. Tigress could of course, have
been writing about me personally, and I am reading the book, finding
myself nodding at every comment, and every page. I have committed all
of the 'faux pas' Tigress outlines, and can totally, absolutely see the
rationale behind her innate logic and common sense.
my relationship repairs or not, I am already feeling better having read
the book. If I only downloaded and read this one book, I would feel it
is worth the price of the gold membership. I hope to find time to join
in on some of the forums, but am a very busy professional in the (note:
industry purposely removed to ensure privacy) world, at the top of my
profession, maybe, internationally known, but at the bottom of the heap
when it comes to successful relationships.
you Tigress, for your wisdom, humour, and for inspiring hope. I will
recommend this site to any friends in future, who suffer the same
problems in relationships."
Tigress, I would like to send a testimonial for you. Since I
completed reading your book about How to Get over a break-up I realized
a lot of things:
-I missed a lot of things in my life, good ones especially! Because I
was too busy thinking about my ex-boyfriend and how he is or what he
does. I find it crazy but I was addicted to the thought of always
thinking of him that it consumed me and the way I look at myself.
-I wasted a lot of energy, money, time for a person who is not mine.
But now I am happy and contented with a lot of things I used to not
-I love myself more and take care of me more. I am now thinking of
myself first and I learned how Apathy worked for me. You're right, it's
very powerful! I call it PowerTool! By the way your techniques are not
only applicable to relationships, dating but also in the career. It
made become more patient, more logical and my thoughts and my mouth
don't get dirty anymore..
-I realized I have friends and family who are there that I neglected
-If you make a person as the center of your life, you'll fail...that's
I learned a lot from you Tigress! and I love the support of the
brokenheartsville! I will never forget how worried, sad, depressed I
was at the first few months but now I am completely happy. It took me 3
months by the way to read all the books and ready myself and got
support from the community and cried in front of PC and so on. Now I am
laughing! And it took me another 3 months to finally over with the last
stages of grief! And now I am concluding, if i get a man fine! if not
Thank you Tigress and more power!" chinky_eyes
Thank you for your website, it has helped me a lot from being recently
you. I really enjoy the insight your books provide. Keep up the good
work and wishing you much success.
tigress, please keep doing what you're doing--the materials REALLY do
help (big time). god bless and take care,
nearly a year with a CP male, believing I was insane or worse, I found
your site. What a goddess send!! A switch flipped and it all made
perfect sense. I'm done crying over some man with issues. Apathy is my
new mantra - and it's not just on the surface. Thank you!
is by far the best info I've read on dealing with my CP. Thank you!
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